In a world that moves fast and rewards distraction, sitting with our feelings can feel like swimming against the tide. Many of us are taught, implicitly or otherwise, that emotions are things to fix, suppress, or rationalise away. Yet when we pause long enough to notice what’s happening within us, we open the door to something far more healing than avoidance could ever offer.

For many musicians, creatives and performers, the stage feels like home. It’s a place of connection, catharsis, and recognition. But what happens when your sense of self-worth becomes fused with how well you perform, how loud the applause is, how many people show up, or how much praise you receive?

It’s not always obvious. It can feel like drive, ambition, a standard. But beneath that can live a more fragile truth: if you’re only as good as your last performance, your worth starts to feel conditional.